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Relationships - The Basics: 1) You don’t have to agree with their point of view… but LISTEN to them… don’t just wait for your turn to speak. 2) Treat them as you did at the beginning, *before* they were a sure-thing. 3) If you wouldn’t have the guts to say it to your parents, why would you say it to them? 4) Nothing wrong with sharing a large part of yourself… but that doesn’t mean you aren’t still an individual person with your own wants, needs, and ambitions. Give your love, but keep the core of you as yours.
Posted on December 13, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this

“There’s no such thing as someone giving “mixed signals”. If you are involved with someone who runs hot and cold, or they are acting one way but saying something different… that’s not “mixed signals” — It’s a STRONG signal that they are either confused about their own feelings or not ready for a relationship with you. Either way, you can’t solve it for them… they have to work out what they want on their own.”
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There’s no such thing as someone giving “mixed signals”. If you are involved with someone who runs hot and cold, or they are acting one way but saying something different… that’s not “mixed signals” — It’s a STRONG signal that they are either confused about their own feelings or not ready for a relationship with you. Either way, you can’t solve it for them… they have to work out what they want on their own.
Posted on December 10, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
..love is not about staying with someone because you don’t want to get hurt. It’s about staying because you’re happy and there’s no other place you would rather be..
Posted on November 05, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
Be careful if you ask someone for a second chance. It’s not quite the same as the first one you screwed up. The bar is set much higher… and they are oftentimes waiting for you to repeat past mistakes.
Posted on November 03, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
Cheating doesn’t start when you have sex with someone behind your partner’s back. Cheating starts the moment you talk or spend time with someone else… and you are lying to your significant other about it.
Posted on September 27, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
Cheating doesn’t start when you have sex with someone behind your partner’s back. Cheating starts the moment you talk or spend time with someone else… and you are lying to your significant other about it.
Posted on September 27, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
The words “love,” “trust,” and “respect” are often overused by people who are worthy of none. If you’re going to proclaim any of these, be sure you mean it… or save your breath.
Posted on September 23, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
The words “love,” “trust,” and “respect” are often overused by people who are worthy of none. If you’re going to proclaim any of these, be sure you mean it… or save your breath.
Posted on September 23, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
The reality: No matter how controlling, worried, insecure, or angry you are… no matter what precautions you take… if the person you’re with is going to CHOOSE to cheat, then they are… and it’s not within your control. If you love them and they love you, trust them and don’t worry about it. If you *don’t* trust them… what are you doing with them? Don’t fight with them out of fear they will cheat… LEAVE.
Posted on September 05, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this

Oh, the double standards in relationships. How do you know if they are just playing games? If you argue with them, you’re looking for a fight, but if you’re quiet, they’ll say you don’t care. If you call them, you’re “too clingy”… but if they call you, you should drop what you’re doing and be happy they called. If you don’t love them, they’ll try to win you over‚ but if you do show your love, th

ey start to take you for granted. If you don’t sleep with them, you’re teasing… but if you do, you’re a slut. If you tell them your problems, they respond by saying to stop bitching and/or man-up… but if you don’t discuss things, they’ll tell you you don’t trust them. My advice: Don’t play double standards. Invest in each other with the same rules applying to everyone… otherwise the relationship won’t work.
Posted on August 29, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
Relationships take passion, love, respect, humor, trust, and *effort*…. not work. Once loving and caring for someone becomes something you have to *work* at doing, you’re on the path to resentment. My advice: Stay passionate, engaged, and honest with your partner… the rest will fall into place.
Posted on August 28, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this
Being a couple is great… but always remember that a relationship is made up of two *individuals* who have their own wants and needs—both inside and outside of the relationship. It’s critical that both invest in the relationship, but maintaining their own personal wants and interests is just as important. It’s not “compromise” when you sacrifice what you want for you… it’s called self-sacrifice — which leads to resentment and a sense of being unfulfilled in the long-run.
Posted on August 27, 2012 with 0 notes x reblog this

i’m the woman who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. I’m the kind of woman who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I’m the woman who wouldn’t make you wait on her hand and foot but would do anything to make us happy. I’m the kind of woman who would enjoy having a movie night than going to some fancy restaurant. I’m the woman who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out than getting drunk. I’m the woman who won’t make you hold her bags but would rather hold your hand instead. I’m the woman who will love you more than anyone than anyone can possibly dream of.


lazy sunday to all.
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