Relationships - The Basics: 1) You don’t have to agree with their point of view… but LISTEN to them… don’t just wait for your turn to speak. 2) Treat them as you did at the beginning, *before* they were a sure-thing. 3) If you wouldn’t have the guts to say it to your parents, why would you say it to them? 4) Nothing wrong with sharing a large part of yourself… but that doesn’t mean you aren’t still an individual person with your own wants, needs, and ambitions. Give your love, but keep the core of you as yours.
“There’s no such thing as someone giving “mixed signals”. If you are involved with someone who runs hot and cold, or they are acting one way but saying something different… that’s not “mixed signals” — It’s a STRONG signal that they are either confused about their own feelings or not ready for a relationship with you. Either way, you can’t solve it for them… they have to work out what they want on their own.”
Oh, the double standards in relationships. How do you know if they are just playing games? If you argue with them, you’re looking for a fight, but if you’re quiet, they’ll say you don’t care. If you call them, you’re “too clingy”… but if they call you, you should drop what you’re doing and be happy they called. If you don’t love them, they’ll try to win you over‚ but if you do show your love, th
i’m the woman who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. I’m the kind of woman who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I’m the woman who wouldn’t make you wait on her hand and foot but would do anything to make us happy. I’m the kind of woman who would enjoy having a movie night than going to some fancy restaurant. I’m the woman who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out than getting drunk. I’m the woman who won’t make you hold her bags but would rather hold your hand instead. I’m the woman who will love you more than anyone than anyone can possibly dream of.
lazy sunday to all.